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Match of the Dads football supports men’s mental health

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Match of the Dads is a Norfolk football league and support group for fathers. As part of the East of England Co-op’s #EastTogether campaign, Chief Operating Officer Adam Kemp, working with Archant, explains how the beautiful game can help dads open up about mental health and depression.

Every Monday evening at the Bowthorpe Football Development Center in Norwich, shoes are laced, jerseys are put on and pipes blown as a community of fathers gathers under the floodlights. Every week from 7:30 p.m. to 9:30 p.m., up to 56 fathers meet to train, socialize and share their experiences in dealing with fatherhood.

Founded by Paul Godfrey in 2017, Match of the Dads is a local nonprofit that was formed to lead conversations about men’s mental health.

“Match of the Dads is a Norfolk-based football league specifically geared towards fathers, stepfathers or fathers-to-be,” says Chief Operating Officer Adam Kemp. “The aim is to provide a supportive network throughout the path of fatherhood.”

Match of the Dads Chief Operating Officer Adam Kemp
– Credit: Game of Fathers

While the topic is under-researched, perinatal mental health issues can affect men as well, as new fathers adapt to the stresses of fatherhood – a role that often leaves them feeling exhausted, irritable, and overlooked. New fathers may be reluctant to voice their needs or seek help, and they may question the legitimacy of their psychological experiences, including anxiety disorders and clinical depression.

“It’s a big culture shock when you become a father,” admits Adam. “A child comes and your life becomes completely different overnight. When we started, Monday night soccer was probably the only thing I did outside of my home and work all week. Finding the time to meet new friends is hard as new parents, so this is a great solution to a problem most fathers will face. ”

Match of the fathers football match at Bowthorpe FDC in Norwich

The league consists of 12 teams – including Borussia Dadmund and LA Dadaxy – with seven players in each squad
– Credit: Game of Fathers

This season the league consists of 12 teams – including Borussia Dadmund and LA Dadaxy – with seven players in each squad. “Next season will be our sixth and we’ve had different team names every year, so we’re running out of dad puns!”

Match of the Dads has a closed group on Facebook that has a forum where members can seek and offer advice, as well as a YouTube channel with match reports and highlights.

“The nice thing about it is that on the surface you only play football. But on top of that, you build friendships and connections while you get advice before and after the game, ”says Adam. “We are a good alternative to the formal methods of seeking help. There’s no waiting list, no entry fees, no long-term commitment, just your £ 4 donation per game – that’s it. ”

The project has already raised several thousand pounds for the Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM), a suicide prevention group that offers a confidential hotline and web chat. Match of the Dads also recently partnered with Wellbeing Norfolk & Waveney to ensure members have access to critical information and resources to protect their spiritual wellbeing.

Match of the Dads player with check for the campaign against living in misery

Match of the Dads raised thousands of pounds for the campaign against living in misery
– Credit: Game of Fathers

“We are very proud of our partnership with Wellbeing Norfolk & Waveney,” says Adam. “This group has a wealth of experience in tackling the stigma of mental health in men – from father-to-be to grandfather. There is no prejudice, no judgment. It is a wonderful thing.

“We have had so many success stories from people who came to us and benefited from what we do. One father had seven children and no job. He played with us and sought advice. We were able to support him so far that he now has a job and is fine. ”

During the lockdown, a keepie-uppies competition was started where dads filmed themselves to see how long they could juggle the ball. And a 24-hour five-on-side game is currently planned to raise funds for CALM, which has been postponed due to the pandemic.

The Football League’s annual awards ceremony takes place on August 28th at Man Cave Norwich. At the most recent awards ceremony in 2019, former Norwich City Football Club professional and Mental Health Ambassador Cedric Anselin presented the awards.

After Match of the Dads won Project of the Year at the Norfolk FA & McDonald’s Grassroots Football Awards in 2019, a father in Wales took Match of the Dads’ inspiration to start a splinter group.

“It just shows the potential of the project,” says Adam. “We’d like to expand that outside of Norfolk. The most difficult thing to replicate is the magic of this group. These people sacrifice their time to come and help: carrying the suitcases, setting up the cameras or whatever – the atmosphere and ethos we have here is special. It doesn’t matter if you’re 18 or 60, you’re having a good time.

“If you could benefit from this, come and play with us,” Adam adds. “The more the better!”

More information is available at www.matchofthedads.com

More episodes of the #EastTogether series can be found at www.eastofengland.coop/easttogether

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Walking Daily Helped Me Lose 28 Pounds and Get Shredded at 52

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Bernard Creed, a 52-year-old accountant from Dubai, shared the results of his 12-week body transformation with Men’s Health and revealed the surprising mental benefits of his new routine.

I always worked out and tried to choose healthy foods. Even during Covid, I stuck to my workout routine at home. I was never heavy, but after I was 50 I noticed that things were catching up with me and my metabolism was not what it used to be. I was no longer able to get away with my previous habits, had gained weight, and felt uncomfortable in my clothes.

I knew I had to make some changes so I started working at Ultimate Performance Dubai with my trainer, Tawfik Bakkar. In addition to our three times a week strength training, I also spent a lot more time doing cardio: I started daily walks and took 15,000 steps every day.

The biggest change for me was learning macros. That was really a revelation. I knew high protein would help me maintain my muscle percentage, but I hadn’t been paying attention to the healthy fats I needed and the effect of carbohydrates on energy. Keeping track of my macros and meeting my daily goals forced me to make much better decisions and ended up having a huge impact.

I had coaches in the past but never got very far. Tawfik taught me how the combination of weight training, macro goals, sleep, hydration, and daily walking was really transformative. He checked in with me every day and pushed me further – this professional support was great.

In total, I lost a total of 13 kg (28 pounds) and managed to gain 1.5 kg (3.3 pounds) of muscle mass in 12 weeks.

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While the physical transformation was quite drastic on the outside, I have to say that daily walks of over an hour a day resulted in the greatest change on the inside. It brought an element of mindfulness into my day and allowed me some peace to think and reflect. I had never experienced this combination of physical and mental changes.

I’ve also had back pain for years – but since I’ve been training with Tawfik without putting any pressure on this area, I haven’t had any back problems since then.

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I’ve kept up with my workouts, macro goals, and daily walks, and I feel really great with the choices I’ve introduced into my lifestyle. Tawfik recently started the bulk phase of my workout, which I love. I am building more muscle and increasing my calorie intake and I look forward to seeing where this next leg of my health and fitness journey will take me.

My advice to anyone looking to get in better shape is to find a program and trainer that will suit you and your needs. Having someone who pushes you knows what they’re doing and listens is key. If you don’t have the budget, there are plenty of apps and forums out there with useful information. But remember to block the noise from critics and focus only on what will help you pursue your goals.

Last but not least: a daily walk is free and will surprise you with its effects.


Philip Ellis is a UK based freelance writer and journalist specializing in pop culture, relationships and LGBTQ + topics.

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It’s okay not to be okay

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Andile Tshuma
Last week’s headlines painted a sad picture with a string of suicides recorded across the country.
Ironically, we are still in suicide prevention month.

September is a time to raise awareness of suicide and help prevent it. It’s about people living with mental or behavioral health problems and helping to reduce the stigma that so many experiences have.

Most people can name many ways to measure physical health. Mental health is harder to define. We know what it is like to be happy, sad, angry, or satisfied. Sometimes we’re just somewhere in between.

The mental health of women and men has become a public health issue that requires attention, especially in the face of rising incidences of depression, violent crime, and suicide.

A man’s toughness is viewed as closely related to physical and emotional strength and invincibility.

Being told to be a man throughout parenting and even in adulthood reinforces the idea that men should be tough and deal with problems on their own.

There is a widespread social expectation that men should never rely on other people, talk about their feelings, or seek help with their physical or mental health.

Men in particular find it difficult and unnecessary to seek psychological help or counseling services.
The latest available data from the World Health Organization shows that Zimbabwe has the 34th highest suicide rate in the world and fifth in Africa behind Lesotho, ESwatini, South Africa and Botswana, respectively.

In the past five years, more men than women have committed suicide, according to mental wellness organization Create Zim.

Padare / Enkundleni Men’s Forum on Gender-Based Seniors Programs Mr Ziphongezipho Ndebele recently said the state of mental health of men in the country was of concern and called for a change in the behavior of men looking for health.

“You will find that men are most likely to experience mental illness because they do not seek help and do not share their problems. Many men struggle with depression. It’s real We really need to achieve more and share the message that it’s okay not to be okay. If you look at the suicide statistics over the past few years, you will see a worrying trend and show you that we are indeed in a crisis, ”said Ndebele.

Global and regional health institutions and bodies must assume specific global obligations as well as accompanying frameworks and strategies in order to better address the links between masculinity and poor health behavior.

Growing numbers of people are resorting to suicide in Bulawayo due to social pressure as police complain about the high rate of suicide cases in the city, including young people.
People usually think of suicide when they are exposed to social pressures, when they feel they have failed, or even when their family breaks down. Therefore, it is important that families watch out for suicidality as suicide can be prevented.

Communities need to be on the lookout for depression or other psychiatric problems that trigger suicide.

A local psychiatrist said that most suicide cases are male dominated because of the belief that a macho should suppress things even if they are affected by social pressures.

According to medical professionals, severe depression can be effectively combated with modern drugs and other medical techniques, but it is necessary that those who drift into suicidal depression are identified as quickly as possible and referred to competent doctors or psychiatrists.

Police in the city have also raised concerns about the alarming suicide rates in the city and urged parishioners to consider counseling before they commit suicide.

Surveys from around the world show that most men everywhere struggle to open up about mental health, but they are significantly more at risk of attempting suicide than women.

According to the 2018 World Health Organization (WHO) report, three times as many men as women die from suicide in high-income countries.

However, reports show that men are less likely than women to seek psychological support or therapy when they have problems.

The 2018 WHO reports set out that the cultural stigma associated with mental health is one of the main barriers preventing people from admitting that they need help.

This stigma is particularly pronounced among men.
Prescribed age-old ideas about gender and expectations are also behind the leading cause of mental health problems in men that eventually lead to suicide.

The report goes on to say that many are embarrassed to seek formal treatment for mental health problems, which often leads some of them to contemplate suicide.

Talking about mental health is not as easy in a social setting as it is at a soccer game. Everyone wants to create the image that their house is in order and everything is good, which in many cases can be an illusion.

Family members must offer support if they notice any suspicious trends that suggest a family member is suffering from depression.

Self-medication with alcohol and other substances is a common symptom of depression in men and can worsen mental health problems and increase the risk of developing other health conditions. Family members need to try to find ways to offer support without being confrontational. This could save a life.

Policy makers and other responsible bodies need to seek better and more effective mental health education so that Zimbabweans, especially men, can easily seek help and know that there is no shame in using health services.

It is important to break the traditional mindset of men about depression and suicide by breaking the stigma that surrounds these issues.

Another way to remove mental health stigma is to treat our mental health institutions differently.
Sometimes the families are to blame.

Once someone has mental health problems, they are dumped and left in facilities like Ingutsheni Central Hospital without anyone bothering to visit them and hold their hand in their recovery process.

The more we view our mental health centers as places of hope and refuge, rather than places to leave social outcasts, we could change the societal perception of mental health. One might consider seeking help and not killing oneself.

Nobody is immune to mental episodes or depression. We must all be willing to offer a helping hand to one of us in need, as we may need the same help tomorrow.

There should be no shame in using mental health services and seeking help when one is depressed. Suicide and violence are not a solution, as such acts only transfer pain to loved ones. – @andile_tshuma

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Meet The Competitors at the 2021 Giants Live World Tour Finals

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This weekend some of the strongest men in the world will compete in the Giants Live World Tour Finals 2021. After the success of the 2021 World’s Strongest Man Competition in Sacramento, CA, which crowned the new Strongman King Tom Stoltman, the contestants will again fight body and soul for their chance to dominate the stage and face Eddie Hall, Martins Licis , Brian Shaw and Hafþór Júlíus Björnsson in the Strongman Hall of Fame.

So who should you watch out for at the 2021 Giants Live World Tour Finals? Read on to find out:

Giants Live World Tour finalists 2021

  • Gavin Bilton
  • Adam Bishop
  • Luke Stoltman
  • Tom Stoltman
  • Maxime Boudreault
  • Andy Black
  • Markus Felix
  • Gabriel Pena
  • Evan Singleton
  • Kevin Faires

    2021 Giants Live World Tour events

    Nicol stones

    • Farmers carry for the distance
    • One stone weighs 114 kg (251 lbs) and another 138 kg (304 lbs)
    • Current record: 19.5 m, Luke Stoltman (Great Britain)

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      • 150kg (330.7-pound) log
      • “One of the unique challenges of the block press is that, unlike a barbell, the logs are often slightly unbalanced due to the natural growth of the log and balancing is critical,” the event information describes.

        Axial deadlifts for reps

        • “What makes this particular lift so difficult is the sheer diameter of the bar it lifts. Coupled with a bar that doesn’t bend, this really is an extreme test of strength and endurance,” the event information describes.

          Car hike

          • “The Car Walk is a test of balance, flexibility and of course strength,” says a Giants live description of the Car Walk. “The athletes have to pick up a 1000 pound VW Beetle with the frame resting on their shoulders and carry it over the entire distance. The races are usually driven by two people, with the fastest time to complete the route determining the winner. “
          • “Athletes need to combine tremendous leg strength to get the car off the ground, insane upper body strength to stabilize the car with their arms to avoid hitting the tires on the ground, and colossal amounts of core strength, Balance and control to keep your body stable when walking with the equivalent of 5 full grown men on your shoulders. “

            Atlas stones

            • “If there is one event that has always defined the sport of strongman, it is the Atlas Stones,” says the event description.
            • “The goal is simple: lift your 5 stones onto the platform faster than your competitor. Each stone is heavier than the last, usually between 120 kg and 200 kg. Lifting 200kg may not be anything for most of our athletes, but after lifting a combined weight of 600kg just seconds before, that last stone becomes the heaviest object in the universe. “


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